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J. D. Hayworth: I Am Schtoopid

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Obdicut (Now with 2% less brain)3/15/2010 3:10:49 pm PDT

re: #282 Aceofwhat?

I do not begrudge your opinion, but I personally think that sexual exploration outside of a long-term, committed relationship is not worth the self-knowledge.

Please stop assigning me positions I don’t hold. I haven’t advocated such exploration— though I do think it’s foolish to hope someone’s first sexual partner will be a compatible long-term match for them. We’re human, we generally have to try something a few times before we get it right. It doesn’t have to be that way, but the luck of the draw makes it usually so.

Again: Do you think my friend is bisexual? Remember, he’s never had sex with another man.

You seem to think that sexual exploration can only occur with other people. Sexual exploration occurs mainly inside our own minds.