re: #336 marjoriemoon
I meant the use of the word “ravage”.
If words like ravage or ravish drive away the bad connotations associated with other words that could equally be used in describing a sexual power exchange, then great! So be it and enjoy.
My point on that part is that pretty much everyone has a power exchange dynamic (to a greater or lesser extent) in their sexual expressions and whatever you call it, it is all just different shades of the same sort of thing.