I know of no such accusations being levied by my parish. No one is accused of anything. I can’t say what happens at churches of other denominations.
Yeah, it would have to be a pretty hard line, trad-Catholic parish for anyone to get “accused” of anything and even then it would be a private conversation between Father and the gay parishioners letting them know that while they are a welcomed and loved part of the parish family they cannot receive communion while continuing in a sinful state. More then likely that would also be a parish where the Priest also has the same discussions with un-married heterosexuals and divorced members who are re-married but have not gotten and annulment yet.