re: #436 Obdicut

My wife and I are different genders, true.

We’re also different people in a zillion other ways.

Gender is one of the ways we’re different. It is far from the most important way.

I think people put a lot to much time into thinking about what gender is and means. And whether a particular difference between two people has a basis in gender or not.

True, of course. But gender differences are defining.

We can share interests, but those interest can change.

We can share values but they can change too,

We can be of divergent interests and values, but we can come together.

Gender differences are forever.