re: #449 researchok

I was right.

You laughed.

Yes I did.

One thing - I just scanned the Gender Dance article; in one section some discussion about what makes men and women feel cherished and loved.

The Roi and I had a conversation about this the other day. And one of the things we were talking about, something that Killgore touched on, was that people look to a partner for what the partner brings to them. Which of course, is part of the equation. But there’s another part, and that is that many folks have forgotten, it seems, that we also have to reflect on what it is that WE are bringing to our partner, and that’s an important part of making something work. In order to do that, we have to have an understanding of some of the differences you talked about in that section.