re: #598 Jadespring

Stuff like that is freaky.

Do you remember the talk? Dream or not did the talk help with your grief with her dying? Personally I’ve come to the conclusion that when things like that happen does it even matter if it’s ‘real’ in terms of an actual ghost that can be measured vs ‘real’ in terms of it being an experience that means something to the person. If someone is convinced that they were visited by someone that has died and it helps them then debating the reality of whether it happened due to an outside force or some sort of inner created force misses the essence of it.

The ones that get me to at least go ‘hmmm’ though are when people have ‘dreams’ or ‘visits’ from people who have died, before they know they’ve died. Spirits or something else those are funky and hard to explain with a ‘it’s your grieving mind creating a scenario to help cope with it,’ explanations.

Until recently I spoke to my brother every night. Even though I knew they were dreams, the virtual contact inside my head still felt really good. I have no idea why the dreams stopped.