re: #1016 sattv4u2

Devils advocate. Tell me that last time you looked across a room at a female stranger and said to yourself , “wow ,,, i bet she has a great personality”

Whether the stranger is male or female, I honestly don’t understand the point of the question. Or rather, I don’t think the question can be meaningfully answered without first filling in a lot of other variables. Like: “Am I even horny enough to bother speculating about sex tonight?” (Note: I’m 37, not 17.) And: “Assuming I’m hoping for a sexual encounter, do I care whether it’s a one-night-stand, or the beginning of an ongoing but no-strings ‘buddy’ relationship, or the first date that might lead to something long-term and committed?”