re: #33 HappyWarrior
My conflict is this. I worry that white bigots may see me and think they can get away with that crap not knowing my philosophy or that I have close cousins who are part African American and that I have a Latina niece. Or if theyโre a PoC assuming that Iโm unsympathetic. Iโm polite to all my clients but I go out of my way to be with PoC and especially women.
Thatโs not something to worry about. Itโs an opportunity to shame a racist when they act out because they think youโre one of them.