re: #133 allegro

You haven’t met some of my friends. ;)

Honestly - assumptions like that are dangerous to make. I know plenty of people who might appear at first glance to be ‘gay” but they’re not. And others who appear to be heterosexual, who are not.

I also know plenty of Louisiana creoles of mixed Spanish/African ancestry who are whiter than I am, but self-identify as “black”.

I do not make any assumptions.