re: #164 MandyManners
Then, why try the euphemism?
Yunno, my sister-in-law did not marry the father of their children until some years after they were born, but I did not feel compelled to refer to him as “the father of my bastard nephew”…
Of course those undocuemted aliens are ILLEGAL, but most of them - save the coyotes, drug and gun runners - are doing nothing else illegal, they are just working and trying to earn a living that they cannot earn at home.