It does not matter at what point a person says no. It doesn’t matter if they’ve invited you to stay in their flat, to sleep in their bed, or to put their penis inside you. The minute they say to stop, you stop. And if they say you have to wear a condom, then not wearing one is unconsensual.

The not-so-hilarious part is that Sweden and the other Scandinavian countries have a historically poor record on rape, with high rates of rape and low rates of prosecution, with quite low penalties for many sex crimes.