re: #211 torrentprime

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I think we may disagree on the motivation question. You’re acting as if the words spoken by a bully are a never-wrong, crystal clear window into his/her motivation. Actions can belie motivations; one is not the other. I’m not that sanguine about assuming someone’s inner heart and mind; I think “you can’t give people crap about their race, their religion, their orientation” etc bans behavior, regardless of why they’re saying what they are saying.

I think we’re getting somewhere!

that last part in bold…help me…how does that protect, for example, Alouette, who got crap because she was perceived to be a nerd?