re: #221 The War TARDIS

I won’t go on faith on other people saying things, I need the proof in front of me. EIther in the form of a person, or someone coming up with airtight logic.

That right there is your red flag. You need to overcome the emotional trauma you went through first, *then* think about a relationship.

Right now you’re not going to trust that anyone you’re in a relationship with is going to stick around. You’re reacting to what you went through by becoming controlling in the other direction. You’re so scared of being abandoned or ending up along that you’re putting unrealistic expectations, checklists, demands for everything to unfold neatly right now, etc. on others. That’s not fair to them or to you.