re: #227 eschew_obfuscation

I agree in principle, but one of the problems is that men have almost no say in what happens to children they foster….. everything is the mother’s choice. If a man fosters a child out of wedlock (first moral problem), he has no say about abortion, keeping the child, or putting it up for adoption, but is forced by law to pay for it.

That’s the flip side that needs to be changed, I agree on that. There are natural consequences to doing the hoky poky. We’d be far better off holding folks responsible. Too many ways to skate on that responsibility.