re: #265 danarchy
I have plenty of friends in the Poly community. They are up front with each other about their partners, let each other know and discuss when they are getting new partners. It isn’t my bag, but there is nothing particularly unethical about being non monogamist.
I’m a big believer in love being what it is, not what it’s supposed to be, but to me describing yourself as and ‘ethical non-monogamist’ is just a bit too precious.