re: #260 Locker

Sure this is one opinion but should a man treat a women the way she wants to be treated even if he doesn’t feel up to it? Why are all of the “rules for a good relationship” that apply to men all mandatory while the one or two things men desire for a good relationship seem “optional” to some women?

I can pretty much guarantee that I don’t feel like doing 99pct of the things I do in my marriage to maintain the relationship but I do it anyway because I care.

“A good marriage is a contest of generosity”