re: #246 Merryweather

This, from his Part 2 on When A Woman Isn’t In The Mood:

He’s clearly suggesting women should subjugate their mood/feelings and just give their other half sex even when they’re not feeling up to it. It’s an incredibly stupid thing to say, not just because a person should always feel free to do what they want with their body, but also because a man is not going to enjoy having sex with someone who doesn’t want it just then. Feeling that sex is an obligation at any point is not a sign of a good relationship.

regularly denying sex is not equal to not wanting it “just then”. sigh. you’re reading INTO it. i need you to READ it.

If you regularly deny sex to your husband, and there aren’t any medical issues, your husband is going to feel the effects. I’m not saying there aren’t ever good reasons to deny us - he may need the punishment - but the effect is what it is, and there is no subjugation implied. he’s explaining the consequences. you are free to accept the consequences.