re: #24 LudwigVanQuixote

Yes exactly. My psychology friends would tell you that the issue is they knwo full well what they want, but for all sorts of societal pressures find it evil and repulsive. They hate themselves and project it on others who “give in” all while doing their best to maintain a facade. The maintenance of th facade only adds to and exacerbates the anger.

This leads to the other great truth that my psychology friends will tell you in what seems a stunning no-duh. People who get laid regularly in a way that is satisfying to them are much happier individuals.

a woman I date swore she was a lesbian… so when she finally agreed to go out with me I took her to Henrietta Hudson… yeah I am a jerk like that.