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I think some pregnancies are a profound mistake - a life-ruining mistake for the mother and the child. …I’ve seen some of the children that come from these situations as a foster. Its beyond bad… really really disturbed bad. Abortion…I hate to say this, would have been a better choice in many situations.

-PH

My sister was adopted at four months. She had serious mental health issues. Was it heredity, or an ever present belief that her birth parents didn’t want her? My parents- her adoptive parents -loved her as much as they could but could never love her enough.
So did I. Or tried.
The suggestion that abortion would have been a better choice for her mother makes me want to punch the shit out of you.