re: #328 Spider Mensch

It’s good to be married. good luck. best advice..3 words to remember..patience, respect, understanding…it can be a tough go sometimes, especially if you plan on having kids sometime, but the rewards and good times far outweigh the tough times.

You know, that’s really good advise. I use a simple three letter (three word) mantra to keep me focused on what’s important as well.

C.A.T.

Calm
Accepting
Thankful

Whenever I get in a twist over something I try to stop, review those three words, emulate them and everything seems to improve, real fast. Nice one man.