re: #341 Aucun pays pour les vieux ennemis

A lot of women are defending Ansari and blaming the victim.
Also, what’s up with the fingers down the threat thing?

My impression is that he was drunk, got a taste of pussy, and went out of control, destroying his own reputation as a good guy, His best bet is to apologize, go into rehab, and never drink again. Alcohol is a very dangerous drug that causes a loss of control beyond what happens with even many illegal drugs.

Ashleigh Banfield Condemns Aziz Ansari Accuser: ‘What You Have Done Is Appalling’

My husband and I have been reading about this and if you read what the woman wrote initially, what Banfield said was spot on. I am not sure where the rest came from but the woman’s initial reporting or complaint had nothing about oral sex or anything like that and, more importantly, nothing where she said No. She said she gave some clues about No. Really?

I argued with my husband after reading what someone else wrote about oral sex and drinks and stuff (hubby always was on the Banfield side) and at this point I have no fucking idea what happened.

As a woman I want to back someone calling out bad deeds, but I want real bad deeds. Because this one is starting to smell of bullshit and that only hurts us.