The truth is that these men know, deep down, they are rapists. They are looking for an out. A way to legitimize and rationalize their own behavior —THEY WERE MARRIED.

Coming to bed drunk and thinking you are seducing your wife like your fantasies tell you she wants —while drunk or high. Yeah, she really wanted it guys ….

No, they didn’t “force” her, but it she didn’t want it, and they know it.

The more powerful the man, the greater the delusion.