re: #492 cliffster
It was an accurate statement. It was also incredibly stupid of him to say. Sort of like, “Yes, honey, those pants DO make your butt look big.”
How are we to ever stop engaging in destructive behavior if we cannot be criticized for it? Rauf was not only correct in making this assertion, he was right to do it. It is our failure that we cannot hear such a message without attacking the messenger for it.