re: #39 SanFranciscoZionist

We’re on day three. My husband says he doesn’t think he’s in denial, but maybe he’s in denial about being in denial.

(He took a class a few years ago where they learned about the stages of grief.)

He’s eating, he’s bathing, he’s watching TV and playing computer games. He seems OK.

I wish he would cry in front of me, but he really, really doesn’t like to.

We guys hate to cry…It is something to overcome not feel..We know the pain is bad..But refuse to let it get to us..Cause it’s weakness deep inside..

There will be a moment in time in the future…When you 2 are alone and your soft questions of his feelings will bring the tears of healing to his eyes..
In that quiet moment of honesty and deep emotion your words can save his soul..Give it time…
Kind Regards