re: #56 Decatur Deb

I don’t have much faith in gaydar. When I was in the draft Army, as I later found out, my unit gave me a gay rep and then rescinded it. All of that was without my ever knowing it, and all for totally absurd ‘signals’.

Agreed. There are people who give you ‘tells’ (a man wearing leather chaps in a bar on Folsom is probably gay), but I think the ‘gaydar’ thing gets built up by newly out college kids forming their tribal affiliations.