re: #56 Decatur Deb

I don’t have much faith in gaydar. When I was in the draft Army, as I later found out, my unit gave me a gay rep and then rescinded it. All of that was without my ever knowing it, and all for totally absurd ‘signals’.

I visited my boyfriend when he lived in NYC. He had men flirting with him all the time. His roommate, a childhood friend, was gay, so there were lots of assumptions being made.