I don’t know if this piece in the NY times has been mentioned.

It talks about a Palestinian surgeon who’s wife was killed and daughter injured:

He said Hamas militants next to his apartment building had fired mortar and rocket rounds. Israel fired back with force, and his apartment was hit. His wife, Albina, originally from Ukraine, and his 1-year-old son were killed./blockquote>

It ends talking about a militant who is upset that he was wounded and not lucky enough to be a martyr, and has to wait in line to be stitched up before he can go try to kill and martyr himself.