God states, VERY clearly in the Bible, that choosing a homosexual lifestyle is

It bothers me, as a Jew, that Christians purport to know what our G-d has written in the Hebrew Bible.

Most Jewish authorities will agree that G-d prohibited anal intercourse (though it’s worded as laying with a man as with a woman). Any more than this is subject to debate. And you won’t find one prohibition in the Hebrew bible about female same-sex sexual relationships (though it’s understood to be prohibited in the Talmud; which no Christian considers law)

There’s nothing about “lifestyles” that I’ve ever seen.