re: #60 SanFranciscoZionist

Agreed. There are people who give you ‘tells’ (a man wearing leather chaps in a bar on Folsom is probably gay), but I think the ‘gaydar’ thing gets built up by newly out college kids forming their tribal affiliations.

I think that it’s at least partially cultural. I had pretty good San Francisco gaydar. But tons of guys in New York ping it who are just massively metrosexual.